American Abroad: Proud to be an American?

Given that today is a decisive day back home -- election day -- I thought I'd say I'm proud to be American! While there is a lot of unnecessary negativity surrounding the election (SO glad I'm not in my home "battleground" state of Ohio being inundated with political ads), it's nice to see people caring about their country and exercising the right to vote. 

Living abroad makes you very cognizant of the freedoms and conveniences enjoyed by many Americans. I often yearn for the familiar comforts of my life in Chicago... but more than anything, I'm thankful to have been raised where I was, by a wonderful family, and I know I have that to return to if and when I please.

On the other hand, living abroad also provides a glimpse of how the U.S. is perceived in other countries. Many times feedback is positive, but there are certainly times when an unflattering picture is painted... And I confess, I frequently try to hide the fact that I'm American when we're traveling. I know, I just said I'm proud to be American... so why do I contradict that statement and attempt to conceal my nationality?

Unfortunately, there are many common stereotypes, many of which are negative, and I guess I try to avoid being associated with these. Few things irk me more than an overweight tourist, donning their ball cap, fanny pack and tennis shoes, loudly asking "Eng-lish?" I mean, I get it... you want to be comfortable while touring a city on foot, but c'mon! I know many expats abroad can relate to me and are acutely aware of the volume level of their voice, their attire, the American accent and slang, etc. 

Admittedly, I have my moments... for example, I was slightly upset that the nearby Starbucks was out of my favorite fall treat -- Pumpkin Spice Lattes (yes, the tragedy!). Upon hearing this, my husband's boss replied "U-S-A!" I simply had to laugh and think to myself, "you got me... American problems."

Most of the time, however, I try to keep myself in check. Now I'm not saying don't be yourself. As a tourist or a fledgling expat, just be mindful of others and respect each country and their culture. As I mentioned in my post about our Paris trip, it's appropriate to speak the language (or try!) or, at the very least, to ask someone (preferably in their language) if they speak English. I know English is the universal language, but we need to act how we would expect visitors in our country to act. In other words, abide by the "golden rule."


Ok, I won't get too carried away on my soapbox... just thought it was important to mention the stereotypes, both good and bad. Let's all do our part to be informed and not stereotype those in other countries, or those within our own country. No matter what the outcome of the election is, try to be respectful of others' decisions and proud to be an American. 

"Stay classy, planet Earth."